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Heart Breaks!!!

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She saw some light when she met you, she had been used before by men whom she had given herself to in the name of love. When you met, you talk sense in her, encouraged her and said how the other men who came before were evil and you promised her that if it were you, you could never have done such a thing to her. You earned her trust, she trusted you in her worlds her troubles and ill omen of meeting and kissing wrong frogs had finally come to an end. Her world finally rolled over, she saw herself walk into the land she ever desired, with milk and honey, she could heal, she could relax, she enjoy, she could dance and be silly around you. But this poor girl didn't know you were a wolf in sheep's clothing, preaching water and on the sidelines taking one for the road. This could never have been revealed but thankfully nothing under the sun remains hidden forever. You continued to earn her trust, took her to the best sceneries she has never been, bought her gifts, out...

Waiting for Boaz

Love Ill-Treated

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She was  an excellent clinician in fact a highly rated orthopedic surgeon....,whatever, you know those medical terminologies. Well established and we'll advanced, she had just bought her dream house from her savings, several real estate investments and a start up plan for a company. She must have been a very organized and determined lady, though still in her early thirties she had accomplished much, treated her parents, her siblings and family members in the way they deserved,  I remember this one time I  accompanied her on a vocational trip to one of the best global  destinations  as she celebrated her parents. What a joy for the parents, they had started enjoying the fruits of the their toil, when they worked hard just to see their daughter get the best education and here she was an accomplished lady. Race was a very respectable lady, with an outstanding personality, everyone liked her and she did the same. However, one was not in place for Race someth...

30 THINGS THAT KILL MARRIAGES

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SOME THINGS U MUST KNOW BEFORE STEPPING INTO MARRIAGE 1      Laziness kills marriage 2     Suspicion kills marriage 3     Lack of trust kills marriage 4     Lack of mutual respect kills marriage 5     Unforgiveness, bitterness,hatred,malice, anger kill marriage 6    Arguments kills marriage 7     Keeping secrets from your spouse kills marriage 8     Every form of infidelity kills marriage (financial, emotional, psychological, material, etc) 9     Poor communication kills marriage 10    Lies easily kills marriage, be sincere to your spouse in every aspect. 11     Relating more with your parents/family members than your spouse kills marriage 12     Lack of, inadequate or unenjoyable sex kills marriage. 13     Nagging kills marriage 14     Too much talk and c...

HOW TO TELL TRUE LOVE

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A RELATIONSHIP  is not about having a handsome boyfriend or having a beautiful girlfriend. It’s not about looking for a perfect person because there isn’t any perfect person on earth. It’s not about looking for a well off or rich person. MONEY CAN’T BUY LOVE. A relationship is about finding someone who respects you, who cares about you in any way he/ she can afford, who understands you, who is proud of having you, who loves you the way you are. Who is faithful to you, who knows how to comfort you, who knows to encourage you and who would accept the worst of you & who will go through everything without giving up on you. It’s not love when money comes first, job or status. It’s more of a contract/deal, because if love be built on money or job status, what happens when money or high ranking job is gone? Now such people are very rare to find these days. If you have got one, just keep that person. Handle him or her with care, be honest & contented with that person and don’t...
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MARRY A FRIEND !? I always say that the best marriage partner one could ever get is a friend, some of  the best marriages out here are those build  from friendship. You get it, you  know some of those friends that you are at liberty to look "stupid ", I mean just being yourself without needing to fake your personality , now what if your marriage partner were like that ? Someone you're all free about him/her! Marry someone you love with your whole heart. Someone who excites you emotionally, intellectually and sexually. Someone who “gets” you and isn’t out to change you. Nothing good will ever come of not being true to yourself. Marry your best friend. Find a person you want to share things with — from the smallest detail of your day to the biggest plans for your life. Marry someone you want to be with at the end of each day and until the end of your days. Never get married because you think it’s time; get married because you’ve found the right person — no matter ho...
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THE TASTE OF LOVE Love is in appearance simple but in it's nature very expensive.  You can never demand for love neither  can anything  purchase LOVE., it's FREE 🍑Don't demand it,  receive it 🍑Don't fight it,  Cherish and protect it.  🍑Don't  disappoint it, appreciate it.  🍑Don't argue her out, she will always win 🍑Protect it and you will blossom 🌸 ever